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You’re Already There

You’re Already There

We love the idea of being on a journey--going from where we are now to somewhere that is better. Whether this is losing weight, making money, spiritual growth...whatever. As long as we have a place...

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Closing Our Relationship Chapter

Closing Our Relationship Chapter

It is with deep gravitas that I want to let all of you know that Whitney and I are no longer “together” - In other words, we transitioned our romantic relationship. First and foremost we want to th...

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The Universe Teaches

The Universe Teaches

Life is our greatest teacher. Nothing else comes close. A parent is bound by the attachment to the role of parent and the unyielding physical love for their child. A romantic partner is bound by th...

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Sometimes I Want to Die

Sometimes I Want to Die

Sometimes I want to die. I’m not ever going to kill myself, I don’t even have suicidal thoughts. Just sometimes it seems preferable to be dead. But what the fuck is that? I don’t want to feel like ...

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Five Uncomfortable Truths About Me

Five Uncomfortable Truths About Me

My friend and medicine woman Wailana told me last night, “The world doesn’t need anything from you other than your truth.” Wow, what a relief. Seriously though! Because truth is something that we a...

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What Does It Mean to Be Free?

What Does It Mean to Be Free?

William Wallace had it right. Freedom is worth fighting for. Without freedom we are but a puppet on a stage. But what does it mean to be free? Because total freedom doesn’t exist. We are never free...

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A Claim To Freedom!

A Claim To Freedom!

I want to write you guys a newsletter that says “I’m on the top of the world, and everything is great!” But, that would only be part of the story. I am literally closer to the top of the world in W...

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F*ck Goals

F*ck Goals

I’m a little hungover and feeling feisty. So I’ll say it again. Fuck goals. Why? Because a goal sets you up with a proposition of success or failure based upon a specific outcome. And guess what? Y...

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My Open Relationship Journey with Whitney

My Open Relationship Journey with Whitney

You’ve heard me talk about it. A lot. My five-year open relationship with Whitney Miller has been the best teacher I’ve ever had. I’ve had the opportunity to face my deepest fears, experience the g...

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Love is Not An Agreement

Love is Not An Agreement

Well, first of all, I have to thank the thousands of people who have sent their gratitude and love for the video explaining the story and mindset behind my car accident. If you haven’t checked it o...

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Disfigured or Transformed

Disfigured or Transformed

Everyone who has been injured, including myself, has the opportunity to look at themselves one of two ways: Disfigured or transformed. I’ve been doing a pretty good job at seeing myself as transfor...

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What Should I Achieve Before I Die?

Life can go by in a flash.  So what should we look to experience before transition out? This ebook outlines the five things to achieve in life before we can say the famous Lakota words: "Hoka Hey, today is a good day to die."