Open Relationship Field Guide

Maybe you are curious about open relationship.
Maybe you have tried open; crashed, and burned.

Or maybe something just happened.  You found out your lover is with someone else.  You are in that place where you feel small, claustrophobic, like you were a magician’s assistant stuck in a tiny basket.  And then there are the swords… Stabbing through your stomach, filling your body with butterflies from hell. Or are they moths?  Full size electric Mothras. You want to get out, just run away, but you don’t know where to go…

You might have just found yourself in open relationship.

Whatever the reason, this 14 step guide and emergency help manual will be an ally to you along the way.

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  • Hi :)

  • The points you make regarding the challenges an open relationship present are so on point. Challenges to our own ego, self esteem and validation and how they play out within open and non open relationships makes so much sense as you’ve laid them out. Thank you, big ups, much appreciation!

  • This is so awesome of you Aubrey! Sharing your experiences and knowledge on a subject that is taboo to some is rad. I give you a big high five. Blessings, Steel Mace Warrior – Victoria.

  • Aubrey argues a solid point. I’ve heard the same argument in the other direction as well (a monogomous arrangement, and the meaning behind it, or the ‘why’).

    Aubrey’s “HELP” section really glosses over almost everything you would hope the HELP section includes. The intro speaks to exactly the type of situation you find yourself in (the ‘oh my god, my partner is cheating.’ ‘my partner prefers other people’, etc), and then… WHAM… Aubrey tells you that you’re in an Open Relationship and that’s that. the remainder of the HELP section is discussing how to be a part of an open relationship and being able to deal with the beginnings of it. At no point does he mention the betrayal of trust of an affair or a partner cheating, or how to deal with any of the issues that he introduces. Your left with the feeling that “OK, I’m in an open relationship now. I’ll do that”, instead of “Hang on, why did he/she cheat? How do I approach them with this? What’s the WHY behind the cheating? Are there addiction issues? How can I help myself here? Should I share this information with someone that I trust? How do I lesson the pain? How do I forgive myself, and my partner, but still move on because ultimately, they cheated on me?”

    Bit of ‘slim-pickings’ and watered-down help section.

  • I love that both of you have the bravery to release content like this. You may already know this but you’re hacking down the trees, creating a brand new path to greater love for all. A more united love awareness.


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