Relationship

There are a lot of rules about relationships. I think they are largely bullshit. Here are my rules:
1) Success in relationships starts with your relationship to yourself.
2) You are capable only of loving another to the extent that you love yourself.
3) You will permit yourself to be abused by another only to the extent that you abuse yourself.
4) There is only one valid promise to a lover: I will give my love generously, and receive your love graciously.

LOVE: Practice Makes the Master

LOVE: Practice Makes the Master

Join us for a dive deep into an experiential 3-day retreat with a focus on improving the quality of relationships in your life, so you can experience more love, connection, intimacy, and freedom....

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The Wild Man & Wild Woman with Christine Hassler

The Wild Man & Wild Woman with Christine Hassler

In this podcast with author and speaker Christine Hassler we explore relationships, and the nature of the 'wild' masculine and feminine.

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Walking the Unconventional Path with Whitney Miller

Walking the Unconventional Path with Whitney Miller

In a 'tell almost all' podcast with my partner Whitney Miller. We discuss the trials and tribulations of the path to greater consciousness, before turning the discussion to the nature of our unconventional relationship.

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A wild man is not a boyfriend, he is a force.

A wild man is not a boyfriend, he is a force.

Can you love me in the blinding heat of a birthing star, when I shower warmth on distant moons? Can you love me in the hole of the cosmic Black, where no one can reach me? Not even you? Can you love me then too?

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The Way of the Superior Man

The Way of the Superior Man

I saw this book recommendation from my friend “twitch” on my skype 5 minutes before taking off on a 7 hour flight from Houston to Peru. I downloaded to my Paperwhite, and finished it before we touched down in Lima.

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The Game

The Game

You are one of the good guys who always sees his dream-girl slip away, or a person who simply wants to learn how to be a more interesting person to everyone you encounter.

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The Red Queen

The Red Queen

I used to call this book a "Masterpiece.” But then after spending some time with Dr. Chris Ryan I realized that this book only told a part of the story.

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Beseeching Sleep's Mistress

Beseeching Sleep's Mistress

Cursed be the early birds That chirp before the morn, Mocking as I sleepless lay With bedsheets all a-worn. Mercy! O’ elusive temptress, Pour yourself into my eyes. Let me smell your raven tress...

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A Prayer for a Nightmare

A Prayer for a Nightmare

O’ demons of fire, minions of fright, Do your worst as I sleep this night. Shake my bed, unloose my sheets, Compel my heart to thundering beats. Make the sweat on my forehead bead, My knuckles clen...

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Another Rival

Another Rival

I wish you were my equal. I wish you were my better. I wish you had incredible strength so I could forge my body to unbending steel, and meet you on an ancient battlefield, So our lady would never ...

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To My Rival

To My Rival

I wish you were a great man. Broad shouldered. Quick witted. Smooth like James Bond, Cool like James Dean. I wish. But you are not. And nor will you ever be. You will always remain the appallingl...

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'Tis Fatal In Love

'Tis Fatal In Love

Tis fatal in love to try too hard With gifts and praise one’s love bombard Leave flowers, chocolates and heartfelt card To those alone whose heart you’ve scarred For once discovered the path is...

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