the Road to union

Discerning, Manifesting, Attracting, and Dating

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Austin, TX
Online Coaching Starts
Online Coaching Starts
FEB 12 - 14
In-Person Summit
FEB 12 - 14
In-Person Summit
1 Year Access
to the FFS App and Community
1 Year Access
to the FFS App and Community

What is Road To Union

You might think that the road to union is about the union. It’s not. The road to union is about the ROAD. As soon as we start thinking of our life in terms of a destination, not only will we miss the beauty of the way, we might actually be hindering our ability to access the timeline of our deepest desire.

And the present day is not your parent’s dating scene. Meeting someone in a grocery store is unlikely (and probably awkward). You already know all of your friends’ friends. Meeting someone in a bar limits you to the small group of people in resonance with the consciousness of that bar! Dating apps and social media have immense possibility but dangerous pitfalls (which we will help you optimize and navigate). One of the best options available to us, is to go to places you have never been and have transformational experiences with people you have never met. This opens up a new tree of possibility that often bears the fruit of eros. It’s how Aubrey met Vylana.

This is why we’re excited to offer this first-of-its-kind event, where you will meet a high caliber collection of people with a shared intention. While the main goal is not necessarily to meet your new partner at the Summit, with a great deal of single people gathered together, you are opening up dozens of new branches on the tree of possibility—not only with the opposite sex, but the people who are friends with the friends you will meet there.

Having the right partner changes everything, and as much as we would like to believe that our next and best relationship will just fall into our lap, it doesn’t work that way.

First, you have to be discerning where you are leaking your time and energy.

Second, you have to know what it is you really want.

Third, you have to become the irresistible attracting force that makes you the partner of someone else’s dreams.

Finally, you have to know how to have an epic date to get past all of the superficial biases that might keep you from seeing the diamond in the rough, right in front of your eyes.

If you are ready to learn everything needed to navigate the beautiful road to union, this summit is for you.

Who Is This For:

For My


How many potential partners have you let slip away because you lacked the courage or the skill to make the proper initiation? The answer is: you don’t know. None of us know what opportunities we had, but never did anything about. This is a big part of navigating the road to union. All of us know how to accept the ‘easy’ relationship, but what about those that are shimmering on the edge of possibility? This event is about cultivating both the intention and the skill to ensure that you are having the highest quality interactions–from virtual to in-person encounters.

For My


HAfter putting this offering out in the world, you all responded quickly, nearly filling up the spots immediately. This tells us something: There is an abundance of conscious, available women who are committed to doing the work necessary to have a relationship worth talking about.

So what is holding you back? It is far too easy to blame it on a lack of great men. While there may be some truth to that, in order to be the partner of your man’s dreams, you have to do the work. You have to have a healed relationship with both the masculine and feminine energies within you.

We are responding to the call to hold a nurturing and transformational space to learn and practice what it takes to find, attract, and enter into relationship with a worthy partner. With these practices, you’ll know how to thrive by being with someone that you can finally trust fully, knowing you’ve united with exactly who you are calling in.

Your Transformation Takeaways

The program begins online with an initial zoom call hosted by Aubrey and Vylana with some tips about how to get to know each other leading up to the event. There will be prompts designed to open up interesting dialogue within the unique group created in the FFS app, just for The Road to Union participants.

When you arrive at the event, there will be time to meet and greet everyone you have started to get to know online. Then, one of the foremost experts in dating and relationships, Matthew Hussey, is going to bring you through a workshop designed to massively uplevel your discernment in partnership and give you some expert keys to harnessing your natural power of attraction.

And remember, this is one part education, and one part transformation, so don’t expect to just sit around listening to the coaches talk.

This will be brought to another level on Day 2 where Rebecca Boatman will bring you into some real world challenges, followed up by Aubrey and Vylana giving some of the keys to how they knew that they were each other’s full fuck yes, and what got in the way.

Day 3 will be preparation for the all inclusive Valentine’s day mock date. Some of you will have found someone over the course of the weekend that you are sincerely attracted to and all of you will have made a friend. This date will be a celebration of everything you have learned.

There are a ton of other surprises scheduled for the weekend that are best left as surprises.

A week following the event, we will hold a wrap up zoom call where we can integrate everything that was learned and set a new path forward on The Road to Union.

Meet the

Master Coaches

For The Road to Union


Founder of Onnit, NYT Bestselling Author, and host of the Aubrey Marcus Podcast, Aubrey is the founding member of Fit For Service.


A medicine woman through and through, Vylana is a gifted singer, dancer, and sound healer.

Featured Guest Coaches

Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey is a world-leading dating advice expert. He is a Life Coach and the New York Times Best Selling Author of the book “Get The Guy”.

Rebecca Boatman

The leading expert in Meditation Relationship and Love Coaching, Rebecca specializes in mentoring men and women in the area of emotional intelligence.

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Who will you become after you commit to walk on The Road To Union?